To this day, I remain awestruck by the fact that human beings are capable of this type of metamorphosis. We don’t have to stay stuck displaying the same personality traits over the course of our lifetime but are free to transform into higher expressions of ourselves. Today I can honestly say that I know beyond the shadow of a doubt that human beings are capable of making radical and lasting change. After a decade of coaching individuals and leading groups, I have discovered that if I don’t buy into people’s perceptions of who they are and what they are capable of, I can bypass their public personas and see who they are in their highest expression. With a little effort, I can see their magnificence and their potential no matter what they look like or what condition their emotional, spiritual, or financial world is in. I can see through their acts, their personas, their fears and insecurities. I can see who they are apart from the baggage they carry around. The undeniable fact is that underneath all of our public personas, we already are that which we desire to be. Our only job is to see past our own limitations so that we can return to that which we already are.Debbie Ford
About This Quote
As you grow older, you start to see your life in a different light. When you are young, you see life as simple and straightforward. You see the world in black and white. You believe that there are no bad choices.
You run around, having fun and taking risks without thinking too much about the consequences of your actions. As you get older, however, your perspective changes. You start to see the world in shades of gray instead of black and white.
Things start to seem more complicated than they used to be. Everything starts to look less certain and less clear.
Source: The Best Year Of Your Life: Dream It, Plan It, Live It
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